God, A Woman and a Man

Friday June 22 2012 6:09 am | Comments (5) Tags: , ,

Today is our twenty-seventh wedding anniversary. Happy Anniversary Steven!

June 22, 1985 -- Mr. and Mrs. Steven Murfitt

I was reflecting back on our ceremony and remembered the special song we chose for that day.

I  found the lyrics on Google along with a guitar rendition. Oh the power of the internet!

God, A Woman and a Man

If there never was a singer Then there’d never be song

If there never was a mother Where would the child belong

If a life was not worth living I could not understand

But as a gift was made for giving So was a woman made for a man

God from the beginning Had it in His plan

To join into one flesh This woman and this man

In the fullness of the Spirit’s love We move to make our stand

For the binding of a promise Between God a woman and a man

If there never was a painter Then there’d be no canvas done

If there never was a morning Then there’d be no rising sun

If the music had no melody No purpose for the band

But as a love was meant for sharing So was a woman made for a man


Marriage can be like an adventurous ride

— sometimes like the slow and sweet ferris wheel

—–and other times like the twisting and turnng roller coaster.

God has been faithful all these years to keep us from falling off!

Thank you, Steven, for riding with me all these years.

I’m asking the Lord to bless the next twenty-seven years with His amazing mercy and grace.

God bless you



  1. Comment by Dr — January 17, 2013 @ 8:49 am

    Dear Gigi & Steven,

    Whoa! I do not know you, you do not know me, but thanks to the internet, I feel as though I know you! This is one of the most memorable sites I have ever stumbled upon. I really love this ‘simple’, yet incredibly meaningful, touching and thoughtful display of love and affection. I found your site while searching for the lyrics of this song which I first heard/played during a simple wedding in 1979 in Minnesota. I loved this site so much I shared it with my wife of 29 years (since 1984) Anyway, may you have many happy returns of this wonderful day!


    Dr. Miebi

  2. Comment by debbie winkler — May 14, 2015 @ 5:54 pm

    Hi Gigi I am looking for the music to the song a woman God and a man. I had this also at our wedding 26 years ago. My daughter is getting married July 18th of this year and I would love to sing this at her wedding. Can you help me find this. Thank you so much for your help

  3. Comment by gigi — May 14, 2015 @ 6:23 pm

    Let me see what I can do to find the music. Ours was 30 years ago! Thanks.

  4. Comment by Melani Gortsema — June 15, 2015 @ 4:26 pm

    Hi! I am looking for the sheet music to God, A Woman and A Man and I am wondering if you have it? I have been asked to sing this for a wedding and my copy is missing….please help!!!!

  5. Comment by gigi — June 16, 2015 @ 6:55 am

    I do not have the sheet music. Do you have a piano store near you? They might have it.

    I emailed my sister in law who sang it at our wedding. I haven’t heard back if she happens to have it v

    I hope you find it.

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